If you know Bethany, you know she basically has two moods. Extremely happy (and hyperactive with that) or extremely grumpy (refusing to do as asked and hiding away on her own, stamping her feet, or slamming doors). Most people only see Bethany’s happy side because she loves visitors, teachers, friends, and strangers, but truth be told, her behaviour can be extremely volatile.

Yesterday we were riding with my sister’s family to church because our car is being repaired. I sat by Bethany. “Are you happy today, Bethany?” I asked. “No,” she replied. “Are you sad?” I asked. She shook her head and said one word: “Grumpy.”

I marvelled.

I have never heard her use that word before. But when she is acting grumpy I generally tell her she is being grumpy. She has evidently taken that word, remembered it, understood it, and now has used that word for the first time ever (and in the correct context).

Bethany was grumpy yesterday morning. She was refusing to come and get her shoes on to go to church. It was only when I said we were riding with Auntie Amy that she came willingly. She even ran happily up the hill to Auntie’s driveway. She really loves her Auntie. But she was honest with me in the car when I asked how she was feeling.

Grumpy. Just one word which conveys a lot of meaning.

With this girl, one word means everything. She is learning to communicate how she feels with words. And that makes me happy, even if she is feeling grumpy.